Sunday, October 29, 2006

What do guys do to be successful with women?

I know that most guys want to be more successful with women. Every guy does. But what do most guys do about it?

Nothing.

They sit back and take whatever they can get—which is usually nothing. Sure, once in a while most guys have a little luck and meet a girl that will go out with them. But this usually doesn't happen very often.

And just about every guy I know or have talked to would like to have more skills and success when it comes to women. But here's the interesting part: Most guys won't go out and learn how to be successful with women. They just won't do it.

It's as if they had someone say to them when they were young: "You're a loser if you have to learn how to meet women" or "If you're not just acting natural and being yourself then there's something wrong with you."

Well I'm personally think that its all B.S.!

We weren't born knowing other skills like how to walk, how to speak English, or how to drive a car. These are basic skills that we LEARNT when we needed them. Success with women is just another skill, and any man can learn it if he wants to.

Have you ever looked at some of the 'relationship' books like “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?” Those books would be great—EXCEPT THAT THEY DON'T TELL YOU HOW TO MEET WOMEN!

All most books talk about is what to do after you're already dating a woman. They don't tell you ANYTHING about how to meet and attract women. These books only work if you've already got a girlfriend - they do almost nothing to teach you HOW TO GET ONE IN THE FIRST PLACE! And the books that do teach you how to meet women are mostly old, outdated, or just plain bizarre.

Even worse, there are books out there like "The Rules" that teach women exactly how to manipulate men in order to get them to buy women expensive gifts and marry them by playing mind games.

The sad truth is that most men give up and never have the kind of success that they want with women—they give up and settle for a woman that isn't what they REALLY want—or worse—they settle for no women at all.

It was not said simply..Its a dog's life!!

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